All we need is live....?

I think almost every indian (male or female) in story of his life has a chapter which starts with "I loved her and we wanted to get married but parents...." and ends with typical "We parted as it was better for all of us" and somewhere between lines lies unspoken "I still love her even if i moved on, got married and live happy married life". For many of you it can sound like movie scenario but the thing is (sad thing)...real lives are behind that "scenario" and "happy end" is quite rare case.

How many times i saw my friends shedding tears over their lost soulmates, but in the same time only some of them have guts to fight their love and right to live THEIR lives.
What is this? Lack of guts? Lack of wish? The way to respect parents by giving up your life? Fear to stand against society and system? Way to prove yourself (or others) that you are good son/daughter/person? Sacrifice life for the sake of all said above doesnt sound reasonable for me. Does it mean im bad person if i dont want sacrifice my life for selfish wish of my parents? Anyone can explain me why its me who will be considered as selfish but not parents who dont care about how they kid feels and what he/she wants. Parents know better what is good for their kids? Bullshit! They are not perfect either and can make mistakes even if they have good intentions. And they have no right to deprive kids of their lives by argument "we gave you this life...so please clear the bill". Aint it unfair..giving live but depriving of right to LIVE?

Its blessing if one managed to find soulmate and its so careless to give up chance to go through life hand in hand with that soulmate.
And its hell to know that you dont have space in heart of your spouse because of that "sacred" sacrifice.

As result - broken lives...he...she...parents who realized their mistake but its too late to rectify it....
Aint it shitty scenario of life?